Originally Posted By: dbmod
Hi Wanda,

It can up to 24 hours for a newbie's posts to show. I apologize for the delay.


How long do we get classified as 'newbie's'? There was a day when it seemed like my posts appeared almost immediately and then it went back to taking hours for them to show up. And it seems like some other posters who I have established relationships with here get their posts put up immediately but then my replies take quite a while.

Just wondering...

Thanks Dbmod!


M 43
X 38
T 13
W moves out of home 11/2010
Roller coaster from hell 2/2011-5/2012
I request divorce 5/2012
W moves home 6/2012
Good time 7/2012 - 1/2015
I leave 3/2016
process of divorce