Deju vu, but new to the online forum...round 2

[FellOnBlackDays]

MJ,
She is looking for a fight. It will be easier to tell you goodbye if she hates you. It is a defense mechanism. I talked at length to my C about this. But, don't fall for it. For the next couple of weeks, she will continue to "make mountains out of mole hills" to get you to fight. Don't take the bait. Don't argue with her about her feelings. Remember your DR training. Next time she comes after you, collect yourself, speak in a calm tone, look directly into her eyes and simply state exactly what you were trying to do. From there, tell her you are sorry that she feels that way and then tell her you would like to calmly discuss what could be done to prevent the situation from becoming a problem in the future. You don't have to kiss her butt, you dont' have to walk away with your manhood crushed. Be confident, but not cocky and just defuse the situation by not getting baited into the fight. I promise you this works. I would have never believed this until I tried it myself. Give it a try and get back to us on the results.

B.I.T.S.!

FOBD