I'm with you Denver. Hang in there. I'm working on detachment as well and am much earlier in the process than you. But I do know that the more I detach and "surrender" to the fact that I have no control over what she decides or does ..... the better I feel.
No question onestep. Somedays are harder than others and you will backslide on detaching. I was doing well from about 12/26-1/7, but then hit a week where I was an emotional wreck again. The hows and whys as to this I have no idea. It just happened. Feeling a little better again the past couple of days though. Keep up the good work!
M 43 X 38 T 13 W moves out of home 11/2010 Roller coaster from hell 2/2011-5/2012 I request divorce 5/2012 W moves home 6/2012 Good time 7/2012 - 1/2015 I leave 3/2016 process of divorce
