Frustrated, Back Again, the Saga continues

[Queen_of_Swords]

I wish I could speak to you personally Xabian.
Because I live in Canada too, and have family and some friends working in the medical field, I possibly have some informational and people resources you haven't been able to access effectively.
I have been clinically depressed in the past, I know what a rough place it is. There is hope. Don't give up. It may take a lot of persistance to get help for not just your wife but for you too. Help is out there, but you're going to have to be assertive and persistant.