Quick update..........I spoke with XH's sister for 1/2 hour this evening. She told me that things are not going well in XH's personal life and strongly inferred that things are rocky between XH and GF#2..........so maybe all that flirting I did over the holidays actually DID help to draw a contrast between GF#2 and myself. I made several sideways references to fun memories in e-mails with XH over the past couple weeks and thought maybe I'd gone too far.........but maybe I just planted seeds.
I went to X-MIL's place last night and saw that XH had brought a new clock with a digital photo slideshow. There were a handful of photos including me in there (some in which H/XH and I were next to each other smiling)...........so I made the cut this time. First time in a year that my photo has been at X-MIL's place. THAT is progress!!!!!!......and there were a few photos of GF#2 from the back and side from a trip they took this summer, but none of XH and GF#2 smiling straight on for the camera. Interesting.................This is consistent with what XH's sister hinted at this evening.
Wondering how to act now that R between XH and GF#2 may be on the rocks?
