I have tried to pay him less attention. I think I am not at a point of piecing anything yet. He's wanting to leave and I am trying to stop him to leave. I think me paying more attention to him now will only backfire.
right now, with me in the house, he can't wait to get the hell out. I have already tried to be as nice and warm and happy as possible. I want to cool things off first. bond building need to come later? what you think