Actually, maybe she is piecing but she is guarded. Afraid of getting hurt... Let me take stock of the past 6 months:

1. Will hug and kiss on lips
2. Spoons every night (two times she made a point to face me)
3. We sit on same chair and drink wine every night
4. We have fun and laugh
5. She says she wants to make it work
6. We read books together

Does your W need to feel "in love" to piece or just agree that she wants to work on the mariage.

Her actions seem to be telling me what her lips are not...

Trying to listen and understand. But I am a man. We are simple cretures! JUST TELL ME!!!

M: 42 - W: 41 - M: 18 - T: 23 - D:16 S:14
EA - July 2010
NC w/EA - Nov 2010
Piecing - Jan 2011
I ask for div - Jan 2012
Div papers filed - Mar 2012
I move out - July 2012
Divorce final - Nov 7, 2012