Man.....I now understand your post to me on my thread.....
H@ll....you gotta get away from her non-sense.....I have exprienced the same thing with my STBXW.
The key here is to get "ON" with your life not to get a reaction from her but rather because you want to get on with your life.
Much easier said than done......trust me I know.....
IMO you cannot fake moving on or forward or whatever you want to call it.....you actually have to do it......
It is the great race as Seedy Bear referred to it last.....
either the WAS is going to wise up and come back or the LBS is going to really "move on".......
We really don't realize this race is goning on but it is.......
The conudrum here is that you do not realize you were running in this race until it is over and you are "done" looking back over the landscape.
I offer you this....I hear it in your words....your getting there....little things you are saying.....they become a part of your skin.....and when they do you will know it, when you are ready.
Hang in there CNS,
Cheers
Formerly "missherlove"
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Expose yourself to your deepest fear; after that, fear has no power, and the fear of freedom shrinks and vanishes. You are free.
