We usually read together in bed. We are just reading over the phone cause we have been apart. Reading together is much better and we do discuss the chapters.

So far we finished:
"Surrendering to Marriage"

And we are reading:
"His Needs, Her Needs"

Next is the following:
"Men Are From Mars, Women Are From Venus"
"12 Steps to a Happy Marriage"

Should I ask her to read them herself? Am I pursuing by reading to her?

I'm going to ask again... How to you piece and detach?

Is there an answer?


M: 42 - W: 41 - M: 18 - T: 23 - D:16 S:14
EA - July 2010
NC w/EA - Nov 2010
Piecing - Jan 2011
I ask for div - Jan 2012
Div papers filed - Mar 2012
I move out - July 2012
Divorce final - Nov 7, 2012