H's MLC - finding compassion and forgiveness

[punkin]

Mila,

Oh God forbid they have to take responsibility for the hurt they have done to their family and others. You are right. He is an a$$hat.

I had to submit that over the past 8 months I have made a total of 10,000 dollars. Compared to his 56,000. And then explain why I deserve alimony. AARRGGHH!

"It's been a year and you are still not over" our 33 year marriage? OMG! Can't wait til I hear what idiocies my H comes up with at the L's office.

Mila, you are a much better woman than I. I'd have been arrested on assault before the conversation was over. Not helpful advice, I know, but WTH! I'm taking strength from women like you on this Board for my meeting at L's with H. If I want him to feel anything from me at all, it's pity. (Sorry, been drinking wine this evening. In fact, had a liquid supper, so to speak)