I was getting tempted and not thinking. I told her that we needed to slow down b/c both of us were probably not thinking straight b/c both of us have been without for awhile. I told her that this probably wouldn't be the best thing for me to do while trying to save my marriage.

You're right about the pain. I really want to get home b/c I think I can do a better job of GALing and healing.

Thanks for your insight, advice, and support.