Is he seeing someone now? Have you detached at all during the S?
IMO, when he was calling about the annivesary, you shouldn't have answered right away. Maybe the next day and just say that you were out and didn't get his message. He needs to start missing you on a regular basis. If he feels that you are just always going to be there waiting for him, he isn't going to budge. So far it hasn't worked so far has it?
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.