I haven't posted in a number of weeks; I guess I was fooling myself into thinking that the situation between my wife and I had improved; it hasn't. My wife doesn't trust me and frankly, it drives me insane.
For the past two or three years, I've been extremely difficult to live with. During arguements, I often make comments that are mean, which hurts my relationship even further. My wife has the memory of an elephant, which is also not good for me. She can recite, word for word, things I've said twenty years ago.
The issue isn't my wife's sharp mind, it's my inability to regain my wife's trust. I continually get upset when my she confronts me with questions, even though in my eyes, I've done nothing worng at that moment.
I need some advice on how to regain my wife's trust. Any help would be appreciated.