Not a very high degree of difficulty is she? Do you want to be with a woman who thinks so little about intimacy? or herself?
ALMY - seems to me you are at a cross roads. You say you want a loving, intimate marriage with your wife but you are tempted by a hedonistic lifestyle full of drama and kinky sex. I don't know if it's possible to have both - and I'd have thought that even if you wanted to indulge in the polyamourous lifestyle a strong, committed, passionate marriage would be the best place to start.
I know you are hurting right now. I know it's really tough thinking of your wife with another man or men. You are in the cyclone, looking for some easy fix for the pain.
A new sexual relationship will give you a quick fix for a while ... but it's like eating a sugar lolly .... it won't last long and it won't fix what ails you.
Perhaps you've been given this time to really take some time out to think about what you DO want for your life. Do you want a loving relationship with one woman, or do you want to play the field and live a batchelors existence. Life doesn't just happen ya know - we get the opportunity to make decisions about how we want it to happen.
Do the work on yourself my friend. Figure out if you want to stand for your marriage ... if you do, there's some good strategies, advice and friends here to work with you.
Blessings, V
V
Never make someone a priority, who makes you an option.
