Sad.... you are doing so well. Most would trade places with you in a second. What are you doing?

No OW. No thoughts, no threats, no anything. You're hurting and so you want to hurt her too? Because subconsciously, that's what you're doing. Harrier is right, that is no way for man to act.

Speaking as a woman... if I was a WAS and was just getting myself together and trying to decide whether to stay with my H or not and he not only didn't keep his changes, didn't respect me, and judged me and then went out to do the same thing... I'd think I was right along, that he's a jerk and I was better off without him. You're supposed to show her what she could be losing... the best man in the world for her. Be that man.

Me - 38, 2nd M, no living children, 1 forever 6 yr old boy
H - 44, 3rd M, twins 16

Dating 4/07
M 10/08
Bomb #1 12/10
Bomb #2 1/11
Bomb #3 12/11