I really don't know, zengypsy . Maybe they feel like less of a man if they go to MC. I know my H is ALWAYS concerned about what other people think. Or maybe it is because they know they are going to have to share feelings and be honest. Wish i knew how to change that on.
Me:35, 2 kids from PR H: 37, 2 kids with me T: 15 years M: 8 years in Feb. Second walk out: 14-01-2011 H had PA: 2007