In the first 2 months of this, she was open with me while pushing me away. I tried hard to be there for her emotionally and listened as much as I could. I told her I wanted her to talk to me and share her hurts.
And that was when she told me she didn't want me and wouldn't try to fix our relationship.
Is this an MLC behavior-in other words, the more I tried to help her the worse things got?
I guess its normal to be totally cut off right now in terms of intimacy. That happened at the same time as the above. Its been hell to deal with... if anyone has any ideas, I'd appreciate them.