I think for my X it's all those things you suggest. She wants us to be friendly and says she thinks of me as family (just different), she wants the kids to see that we all get a long great and I also think her heart has hardened.
Ultimately I believe we have been brainwashed to be the "me generation" and that "I" should be happy no matter what. In fact my X said to me "life is too long to be unhappy". She then said "I don't need you" as she walked out the door.
Taking my kids to the dentist tomorrow. I work from home so I am able to do that. Friday is ski day at my daughters school so I get to ski with her. Yeh !
So sorry that you lost all that you had written. I have had that happen as well. If I am going to write a lot I do it in MS Word and then copy and paste. That way I have a copy.
Yep, it's just for their own good !
Me/W: 46/36 D7.6/S6 T/M: 7.5/6.5 Bomb 12/05/07 D final: 03/03/09
