I was also reading another thread with something similar, one by Trusting.

For someone like me just in the beginning of my sitch, it is so heartbreaking to see how MLC affects everyone's lives, even those who have decided not to stand any longer.

We all try to be strong, to live our lives, detach, etc. but the lesson here is, specially when children are involved, that we could never really ever break away completely.

Our resolutions help us for a while. But we never know what will happen in the next two months, or years, or so,in the end, it is a moving target.

Standing seems to be a defined term for holding the door open. Walking down the hallways seems more fitting for someone like you.

I guess you just should live your life and go on - it is pretty full. And one day, ET might just come home for good, but whether he will stay will really depend upon how far you have walked down the hallway, he may have to catch up quite a bit, or maybe might not even be able to.... eh? Or are you willing to slow down for him?


Me:49 H:45 D:12 M:14 T:18
Bomb: 6/26/10
EA: 9/3/10, fizzled out slowly, now ???
11/5/11 Retrouvaille
Finally piecing....
Its peaceful at last, but we got a looong way to go