I'm with you Denver. Hang in there. I'm working on detachment as well and am much earlier in the process than you. But I do know that the more I detach and "surrender" to the fact that I have no control over what she decides or does ..... the better I feel.
B.I.T.S
Formerly known as onStepAtATime Me:31 W:31 T:13 yrs M:8 yrs D: 20 months ILYBNILWY: 9/22/10 "I want a separation" 1/05/11