"So you're doing it solely to get something back"

Not exactly, but eventually...

If I was dating OW and giving "just because" I would certainly have SOME expectation of reciprocation... If she never reciprocated, I'd probably get lonely and stop dating her...

That's the true risk the WAS takes... The fact that I'm even thinking of OW is dangerous.

I will not meet anyone. I just need this forum to vent.


M: 42 - W: 41 - M: 18 - T: 23 - D:16 S:14
EA - July 2010
NC w/EA - Nov 2010
Piecing - Jan 2011
I ask for div - Jan 2012
Div papers filed - Mar 2012
I move out - July 2012
Divorce final - Nov 7, 2012