Okay so H texted this morning asking if he could get his tools. I asked him when? He said now. I told him he could and he knows how to get into the shop for his stuff. few minutes later he said he needed his hair brush and a towel from the house. I told him I would put it outside the back door for him. He texted back FINE.

Then it takes him an hour and a half to show up. He wondered around outside for what felt like forever...(I think it was 45mins) I had the music cranked and I kept myself busy cleaning. Did not want to be able to hear the doorbell or my phone if he tried to talk to me. He sent me a text while he was here about his birds needing water.(he has birds in a room in the shop)
So after I read the text he was gone and I went out to check on them and none of them really needed any water. Weird!!!!

He looks like crap. I know he is couch hoping at the moment but he usually takes pretty good care of himself.

The one thing that is making me mad is that he has not called to talk to his kids. He knows he doesn't even have to talk to me. And no, I have not said a word to him about it. Just drives me crazy that his kids get put on the back burner because he is going through crap. I would be condemned a lousy mother if I did what he is doing. It's just way to selfish for me.

Me:35, 2 kids from PR
H: 37, 2 kids with me
T: 15 years
M: 8 years in Feb.
Second walk out: 14-01-2011
H had PA: 2007