Wow! I believe Bond has smacked you a virtual 2x4 to the noggin!

Unfortunately, you left the home but at least you admit it was in error. To other LBS reading this don't repeat this mistake!

What Next, not sure what advice to give you at this point in your journey but even if you are happy with the terms of divorce as you see them its better to have an unbiased set of legal eyes to look at this stuff and render an opinion. Don't let your WAW walk over you! Are you SURE you are being treated fairly?

In my sitch i could make everyones life wonderful by moving to live with my sister free of charge (in theory) and continue financial arrangements as they are under some legal separation agreement. That would be nice for my WAW wouldnt it? Not gonna happen. She can move out if she wants, or we can sell the house which would work in my favor. I choose the latter since she wont do the former. See how that works? At least i hope thats the correct db way.