SCanada - I probably would have done the exact same things that you did here, but I gotta think that Bond is right. All of it was pursuing. It's much easier being objective and seeing these things when it's not my own situation that I'm trying to analyze... (sigh)
M 43 X 38 T 13 W moves out of home 11/2010 Roller coaster from hell 2/2011-5/2012 I request divorce 5/2012 W moves home 6/2012 Good time 7/2012 - 1/2015 I leave 3/2016 process of divorce