Here's the 2x4 for you. If you are complacent enough to not do anything, why would your W want to go back to you? What are the benefits of your W going back to you? It's just an honest question. I mean in my opinion, you've been one of the most laid back DBer's I've seen on here. Would it bother you if she had an OM?
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.