I just checked it out. I see the post. man, this makes no sense but I also see the potential for my wife to start realizing it can be better between us as soon as she sees how her negative thoughts of the past do not have to be in our future.

We both have individual counseling tomorrow and marriage counseling on Wednesday!


Me - 39 yrs old
Wife - 39 yrs old
Married - 18 years
Together - almost 21 year
Kids - son age 13/ daughter age 10
Bomb Dropped in May 2010
Seperating - June 2011, after school lets out