Snodderly,

Thank you for your guidance. I was hoping you would read my sitch. I find now more than ever I need direction. I have come so far, I don't want to slide backwards or lose my focus. It almost seems the ML'ers want you to give up their life for them.
I have too many responsibilities and self worth to go that route again. I go to meet with my lawyer to discuss strategies for my next court hearing regarding child support. Ex will not let up on this. My next hearing is not until the end of April. I find his timing in "finding God" odd. Any suggestions regarding how often I should have contact with him, etc...


Me: 46 H:44
Together: 25 years
Married: 20 years
Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07
OW: EA began 2005
PA began end of 2006
3 children,20, 16, 6
ex asked for forgiveness
01/16/11