DB'ing but it's a daily struggle - need support.

[ScaredinCanada]

Don't get bummed out about the "no" to the dinner date. Sounds like it was her loss to me.

Maybe it was just the way you typed it, but it also sounds like she is just being negative. Almost like a child that wants something, but is to stubborn to admit it. Did you get that vibe at all, or is it just me?

Oh for sure, I have 3 little ones, and it feels just like how they act sometimes. Honestly I'm 95% past it, although I can tell by some of the things she said (can't explain it) that she doesn't believe that I'm "ok with the sitch".

I feel like she might be waiting until she feels that I'm done before she actually drops the Divorce Bomb...but who knows I could be wrong. Either way, I doesn't really matter to me.

Like I was saying to Scared2Def, I'm in good place now. I feel detached from my emotions and I'm really focused on becoming the ME that I really want to be. If she wants to come along and enjoy the man I am becoming then great - if not, well then that's her loss.