Thank you Cadet I am lookin forward to reading everythin you posted and learning as much as I can here and applying the canges to try and save my M. I am currently re-reading DR and as soon as I am done will pick up DB.

Just have a question for you or anyone else who can answer this for me...Am I correct to think that my H is going through MLC because this is out of character for him and because it was sudden and I do think he was depressed. I'm a little confused. I think the point here though is that whatever he is going through, my changes or my approach can/may help me restore the M...am I right to assume this?

Thanks

Me:32 H:32
M:9 T:15
D:4 S:2
OW/PA: JANUARY 10
ILYBINILWY AUGUST 10
Goes and Comes July/September
Moves out September
Sep. since Sept.