I am piecing and all the uncertainty is still difficult. Still hurtful. Still a daily struggle. My W has been away since Friday at her GF with my son and now I'm off to a business trip till Thursday. Being away is so very difficult.
So is it time to discuss R? I also want to ask if W has contacted OM in the past 80 days. I have no evidence, I just want to know. I believe at some point I'm owed that. I really need to understand her motives. Her actions before leaving showed she wanted to work on R but for me hearing is just as important.
Thoughts?
M: 42 - W: 41 - M: 18 - T: 23 - D:16 S:14 EA - July 2010 NC w/EA - Nov 2010 Piecing - Jan 2011 I ask for div - Jan 2012 Div papers filed - Mar 2012 I move out - July 2012 Divorce final - Nov 7, 2012
