He is a major button pusher and still tries to get my goat so to speak. He asked me if I will be able to forgive other woman. I did not even go there. It was all so odd and confusing. Like I need anymore of that in my life.

I know this though, he won't let go. He has not let go of me. I find this terribly confusing because I am trying to move on. It is hard when someone is still holding you by the leg and then pushing you off a cliff.

I did get a good sense of his pain though. He is in a tremendous amount of pain. I sympathise with this, but I told him I no longer will be the object of his blame.

Me: 46 H:44
Together: 25 years
Married: 20 years
Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07
OW: EA began 2005
PA began end of 2006
3 children,20, 16, 6
ex asked for forgiveness
01/16/11