Another thing. I need reassurance that she's in it and willing to make things better for us and our family. I need reassurance that she is in love with me. I need reassurance that I am worth it all.
I too darned needy and she's sensing it. And it's pushing her away.
I need to back off and relax and let her come to me naturally. But how? I feel like if I back off she will step away and my fears will become realities.
Me:42 W:43 M:03/08/98 SD17, D13 Found out about affair:12/16/10 Found out again: 06/22/12 Split: 06/22/12
