He is still struggling with "authority" and views me as an authority figure. He wants to demolish anything like that in his path. He feels he is still paying me way too much in child support,,, blah blah blah, thus the current court procedings.
His tax returns indicate some effort to hide money that will need to be brought to the attention of my lawyer. I am still following through with protecting myself financially, I have too.
He took ownership of a lot last night. He said he is a weak man and failed his family. He gave me the sales pitch on how he is becoming a different person. The thing that struck me the most about this conversation is how the tables have turned. He is now in the place I was 5 years ago. Trying to convince me he is a changed man, turning to God. Stuff the LBS tries to do in the beginning. I found no need to get defensive with him. It no longer matters to me what he thinks about me. I know the truth
Me: 46 H:44 Together: 25 years Married: 20 years Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07 OW: EA began 2005 PA began end of 2006 3 children,20, 16, 6 ex asked for forgiveness 01/16/11