you are absolutely correct in saying that you need to be comfortable in your own skin and what others say shouldn't matter to you
it is not healthy to make yourself feel better by making other people "bad"
it is harmful to ourselves if we have to degrade others in order to feel good about ourselves.
the way a person looks has nothing to do with their inner self
saying someone has a low self esteem and that is why they would have an affair is different than saying....what a fat load, I can't believe my husband left me for that trash
you should never have to put someone else down in order to feel good about yourself...it isn't about who is better looking, makes more money or has more things....it is about US
