No further info from wife re status of our situation. She focuses all discussion within the moment. There is no discussion about anything in the future and it is primarily focused on the kid's activities. No discussion or interest in my job, how I am doing or feeling.
I continue my DBing efforts. Her reaction to this is quite interesting. For example, I offered to make her something to eat after she came home from her evening class. She declined saying she wasn't hungry. 5 minutes later she was in the kitchen making herself something.
I am seeing more and more of this behaviour where she goes out of her way to deny me the opportunity to do a nice thing for her. Not sure if this is something that I should back off of?
My challenge is that this would have me return to my old way of being selfish and not doing things for her or other people.
OM is currently out of the country on a holiday, so this may have something to do with her mood. Our interactions continue to be on the level of two distant friends, not two people who have been married for 20 years.
