Thanks man, I see what your saying, I just seek confirmation too much form her. I do need to move on and I think I am slowly coming around. [censored] that it is taking this long and that she is tired of waiting.
Today I saw a small glimmer, we had a very heated discussion and instead of walking out she actually sat back down. She ended up leaving shortly after but I could see that when she sat down it was because she felt it.
Me - 39 yrs old Wife - 39 yrs old Married - 18 years Together - almost 21 year Kids - son age 13/ daughter age 10 Bomb Dropped in May 2010 Seperating - June 2011, after school lets out