Another DB day here in cold Shanghai.

Last night I had a brief skype messaging with him about something light and the conversation was good. I kept it brief and said good bye first. He wanted to see if I can go on my business trip after he take a week long vacation first.

I said its not up to me but I will try my best to fit my schedule with his.

But I am not going to. I am not going to let him have the opportunity to go on a trip with some women even though there may not be any. Just in case there is.


Today he came to see son again, each time he comes he would call and say I am coming at this time but he always say "but i can't stay long"
I said "don't worry about it. he's your son you can stay as long as you need to. "

Then when he came, quick touch of makeup, looking fresh and happy. Let him play with son, and then I change to go out while he's still in the house.

That surprised him a bit. He asked me where I am going. I said, out. He said "party?" (I was wearing sweat suit and snow boots.. yeah right party) I said, no, just to get a facial. He asked me "with sherry? (my girl friend) I said no.

Like, please, if you want to divorce me. Why do you care who I am going out with on a monday night?

I think the 11hour thing is working? what you think?