Originally Posted By: sandi2
When the kids were approached, did you say anything or did your W do the talking?



I chimed in some but she started the conversation. I think my kids know I do not want this, I think they see it id drivin by her.

What the hell.

My wife was on these forums early on in our situation last July-Sep. Should I let her know i am on here now too working on the same things? Or is this a secret?


Me - 39 yrs old
Wife - 39 yrs old
Married - 18 years
Together - almost 21 year
Kids - son age 13/ daughter age 10
Bomb Dropped in May 2010
Seperating - June 2011, after school lets out