I wish there was a "Like" option that I could select for Habit's post. It's so true, and I'm in the same spot now...I finally feel I've detached. I feel confident in myself - no idea where my M will be, but at least I'm using a strategy that is having positive result for ME.
This is obviously not an easy road no matter which road you take, but we can all do it. We can get to a place where we can be in control of ourselves - empower ourselves to be happy and work on being the person we want to be, because regardless of our W's we need to be the best Dad's, Son's, Brother's, Friend's...that we can be!!
Canada,
My wife is listening to her Ipod singing out loud downstairs and I am in the atic with the kids. I know she was on this forum for some time, but she was the WAW and still was looking for advice.
Would it be dumb to mention to her I am trying this now?
Me - 39 yrs old Wife - 39 yrs old Married - 18 years Together - almost 21 year Kids - son age 13/ daughter age 10 Bomb Dropped in May 2010 Seperating - June 2011, after school lets out
