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If the affair/separation doesn't solve their problems, then maybe a divorce will do it.


Everything that Beatrice said makes a lot of sense SA but this really stood out in your case!

I read this

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The other thing that seems often to happen is that the divorce then takes a very long time to go through.


Describes mine!

M48 H53
M16 T18
S16 D13
SS30
H drops bomb PA/8-30-09
H leaves 12-30-09
D filed by H 2-10
H asks to come home 4-11
Piecing