Met with a woman at my church yesterday. Her job is grief--she works with terminal patients and their famililes. She has a Phd, MSW and RN. She said that anger is a healthy and natural part of grief. That you can't even think about forgiveness until you get THROUGH the anger and the grief -- its not healthy to repress those feelings and only makes forgiveness impossible. So, I think a little XH bashing and OW bashing are fine right now. Someday I won't be on this site, when I'm beyond all this, but I'm still in it and I'll bash from time to time because I need to and its healthy to do so.
