Now she's reassuring that this other guy is actually giving her good advice to help our marriage
I meant to warn you, that statement usually follows the "he's only a friend".
You are right, she would not text just a friend a couple hundred times. She is getting something out of that connection....you can bet your life on that. If it hasn't turned into a full blown EA, it's well on it's way. Don't buy the junk about OM helping your M. He's helping himself right into the back door.
Have a plan and do not act out of emotions. Decide what you want and what you are willing to do and not do.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
