Big talk tonight. I am a wreck, need support.

[MrBond]

When he makes demands like that, don't accomodate them if they seem out of the ordinary or isn't what you want to do. Continue to focus on you.

Do not wait on him to do anything, especially pay attention to you. When you release all that, he's going to start engaging. It might even be in a hostile way, but once he feels that he isn't being paid attention to, he will make some noise.