Denver, who were you when she fell in love with you? Do you have any early letters, e-mails? NOT to send to her (no matter how tempting) but remind yourself who you were in the beginning. What made you attractive to her?
Taking that advice too.
I was a friend to her more than anything probably. That is why I'm having problems with the concept of detaching and going dark and ALSO trying to be THAT person. It seems like it is impossible to do both. Frustrating. I feel like I'm trying to learn calculus here!
M 43 X 38 T 13 W moves out of home 11/2010 Roller coaster from hell 2/2011-5/2012 I request divorce 5/2012 W moves home 6/2012 Good time 7/2012 - 1/2015 I leave 3/2016 process of divorce
