I think it is sad we get lazy after the chase. It brings out the best in us, and it is exciting and fun. Doesn't make much sense to why we stop.
I try to think back and I can't come up with much. I feel I am a better man in most aspects than I was then. What I have came up with is, be a better father (which I wasn't a father then) and the biggy is get rid of the grumpy angry person I had become.
As for looking back and seeing who she fell in love with? I don't know, going to have to keep looking.
I want to appologize to Denver. Did not mean to take over your thread. Sorry. I will stop. I hope we can all learn from everyone's posts.
H-40 W-38 Together-20 Married-12 boy-7 girl-3 bomb-9/17/10 No papers live together No affair