"Well, I might agree with you on all but the boyfriend thing. I don't think its impossible, but I doubt it. This guy lives like 5 hours away, and she was in the past always ready for random hookups. I'm sure she's about to become rather promiscuous."
5 hr's away is irrelevant. Affairs are mostly about the emotional connection.
"I guess it doesn't matter. Maybe it is time to move on."
People only want what they can't have.... Sometimes moving on is the best way to get them back......
"Sad. One day when she finds some guy to knock her up, she'll miss having a devoted loving father for them."
Maybe, Maybe not... Don't concern yourself with things that are out of control... Use this time to work on yourself and become the best person you can be..
"One day, she'll get dumped hard, and she will miss having a man who was willing to stick next to her through anything." Again, this is a waste of energy and unproductive thinking. Like everyone that get's bombed, you are hurt right now.... So is she... Time to be an example and get control of yourself... Become a person that only a FOOL would divorce..
Anyone else out there think along the lines of kml?
Divorce Busting isn't necessarily about saving your marriage... It is about saving yourself... Finding out who you really are, what makes you happy... It helps you to look for solutions to everyday problems and become aware of unproductive behavior... I say that you start D'bing and watch how it can help you through a very tough situation.
