Yes, Wanda, make him commit to a time and what he's taking. Maybe tell him you have plans tomorrow and he can come between x o'clock and x o'clock?

My H thinks MC is a waste too. frown

When you try to talk to your H about the porn, what does he say? Have you asked him why he wants to look at that particular type of porn?

Me - 38, 2nd M, no living children, 1 forever 6 yr old boy
H - 44, 3rd M, twins 16

Dating 4/07
M 10/08
Bomb #1 12/10
Bomb #2 1/11
Bomb #3 12/11