Being the man I was before the M?

Well, I was very pursuing. I pursued hard until I got her.

I was very romantic and affectionate.

So how do I become the man I was before M, if I am not supposed to do these things?


H-40 W-38
Together-20
Married-12
boy-7 girl-3
bomb-9/17/10
No papers
live together
No affair