I'm there too. We all need to detach more and that way we won't feel the roller coaster as much.
I keep telling myself to stop looking at the tracks on this ride. To stop looking over the edge as we're going downhill and stop concentrating on the gravity pulling me back when we're riding up hill. Just look out at the view, see all the things we wouldn't see if we weren't on the ride. The trees, the hills, the landscape. Focus on that. Then the ride itself isn't our focus and maybe we won't get sick.
Will add you to my prayers.
Me - 38, 2nd M, no living children, 1 forever 6 yr old boy H - 44, 3rd M, twins 16
Dating 4/07 M 10/08 Bomb #1 12/10 Bomb #2 1/11 Bomb #3 12/11