Situation Normal; All Flummoxed Up

[crushednstuck]

Rough night tonight. My D8 tells me over the phone that she met OM and his sons yesterday. W says she didn't know he was going to be there. Apparently he was introduced as W's friend, who was also there.

I'm really not sure how to feel about this. W didn't tell me last night when I called to say goodnight to the kids. Do I stop goodnight calls? Talking to W right now is too painful.

Also, how do I now treat W's friend who's the only friend who knows about OM? She is apparently supportive of W's actions. Our kids are very close because W isn't capable of doing anything alone with my kids.

I'm looking for some wisdom because I am doing everything I can to fight off the rage.